Inside Mae

  Every relationship, no matter how strong or loving, will inevitably face a challenging phase where conflicts and emotional struggles arise. This ""toxic phase"" is a natural part of the relationship journey, as it's during this time that unresolved traumas and past experiences begin to surface. These underlying issues can lead to disagreements and emotional exhaustion for both partners, causing the relationship to feel draining and stressful. It's essential to understand that building a healthy relationship takes perseverance. It's not something that can be achieved instantly or mirrored after idealized portrayals in social media. Instead, it involves a process of learning to navigate the complexities of a partnership.  All relationships will go through their "toxic phase", where fights will be inevitable because that's the time where their traumas will spill over in the relationship. It will come to the point that both of them will be em...

  In life, we often face challenges and setbacks that test our resolve and determination. It's easy to feel discouraged and want to give up when things get tough. However, it's in those moments that we must remind ourselves of the importance of perseverance. By never giving up, we not only overcome obstacles but also cultivate a sense of self-respect, pride, and accomplishment that will stay with us forever.  When we persevere through difficult times, we build character and develop inner strength. Each obstacle we overcome makes us stronger and more resilient, preparing us to handle even greater challenges in the future. Giving up may seem like the easier option, but it leads to regret, self-doubt, and a lack of personal growth.

  In a world filled with diverse perspectives and experiences, it's easy to fall into the trap of judging others. We often find ourselves critiquing people's actions, behaviors, and choices, believing we know what's best for them. However, this mindset can lead to negativity, division, and a lack of empathy. Instead of focusing on judging others, we should shift our attention to self-improvement, as it fosters personal growth and promotes a more harmonious society. Judging others can stem from our own insecurities and biases. When we criticize someone, we might be projecting our own flaws or shortcomings onto them. By doing so, we avoid confronting our weaknesses and hinder our ability to learn from our mistakes. On the other hand, self-improvement encourages us to reflect on our actions, acknowledge our errors, and work towards becoming better versions of ourselves. Moreover, judging others can create barriers and damage relationships. When we label people as ""g...

  Balancing hard work and enjoying life is crucial for a fulfilling existence. While dedication and perseverance are essential for achieving success, it's equally important to take time to appreciate and savor life's moments. Working hard without allowing yourself to enjoy the fruits of your labor can lead to burnout and dissatisfaction. Conversely, solely focusing on leisure activities can hinder personal growth and progress. Striking a balance between these two aspects enables you to cultivate a sense of purpose and contentment. By working diligently and making space for joy, you can create a life that is both productive and meaningful.

Thinking small can hold you back from achieving your full potential. It's time to shift your mindset and start thinking big. When you think big, you open yourself up to new possibilities, opportunities, and experiences. You begin to see the world in a different light, and your goals become more ambitious and exciting. Thinking big doesn't mean being unrealistic or arrogant; it means believing in yourself and your abilities, and striving for greatness. So, let go of your limitations and embrace a bigger vision for your life. The sky's the limit, and beyond! Don't settle for mediocrity. Expand your horizons, challenge yourself, and strive for greatness. Remember, the only way to achieve big things is to think big.

Still thankful to you, 2025! I gained independence with my driver’s license, celebrated my 30th birthday, and honored four years of marriage. It’s been a year of learning and progress. 🌸