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God doesn't always call us to be safe.

  The idea that God prioritizes obedience over safety can be unsettling, but it's a theme that runs throughout the Bible.  Let's delve deeper into the stories of Job, Jeremiah, and Jesus to explore this concept further. Job, a righteous and blameless man, faced unimaginable suffering when God allowed Satan to test his faith. Despite losing his family, health, and possessions, Job remained obedient to God, refusing to curse Him or turn away from his faith. His obedience in the face of adversity serves as a powerful example of unwavering trust and devotion. Jeremiah, known as the weeping prophet, was called by God to deliver unpopular messages to the people of Judah. His obedience led to persecution, imprisonment, and ridicule, yet he continued to speak God's truth, even when it was unsafe. Jeremiah's story demonstrates that obedience to God's will can require great courage and perseverance.   He calls us to be obedient. By looking at Job, Jeremiah and Jesus...obedien...

Jesus teaches us about “selflesness”

  Jesus Christ's life and teachings are a powerful example of love. His willingness to sacrifice Himself for the sake of humanity demonstrates the depth of God's love for us, even in our sinful and imperfect state. Jesus's selfless act encourages us to emulate His example, putting the needs of others before our own and loving without expectation of reward or reciprocation. Selflessness is a core value in Christianity, and Jesus's life is the ultimate manifestation of this virtue. He came to Earth not to seek power or glory, but to serve others and bring salvation to all people. Through His ministry, Jesus healed the sick, fed the hungry, and comforted the afflicted, showing us the importance of compassion and kindness towards our fellow human beings. Jesus's humility is another key aspect of His character that we should strive to emulate. Despite being the Son of God, He did not seek to elevate Himself above others. Instead, He humbled Himself, taking on the form of...

I love me when I love you

  Loving oneself is important, and it becomes even more essential when we're in a romantic relationship.   When we genuinely care for someone, our love for them can reflect and enhance our own self-worth. In a healthy relationship, both partners support each other's growth and happiness. Loving someone can inspire us to be our best selves, fostering personal growth and self-appreciation.  Conversely, self-love allows us to love others more authentically, without needing validation or losing our identity in the process.

Toxic Phase

  Every relationship, no matter how strong or loving, will inevitably face a challenging phase where conflicts and emotional struggles arise. This ""toxic phase"" is a natural part of the relationship journey, as it's during this time that unresolved traumas and past experiences begin to surface. These underlying issues can lead to disagreements and emotional exhaustion for both partners, causing the relationship to feel draining and stressful. It's essential to understand that building a healthy relationship takes perseverance. It's not something that can be achieved instantly or mirrored after idealized portrayals in social media. Instead, it involves a process of learning to navigate the complexities of a partnership.  All relationships will go through their "toxic phase", where fights will be inevitable because that's the time where their traumas will spill over in the relationship. It will come to the point that both of them will be em...

One day you will thank yourself for never giving up

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  In life, we often face challenges and setbacks that test our resolve and determination. It's easy to feel discouraged and want to give up when things get tough. However, it's in those moments that we must remind ourselves of the importance of perseverance. By never giving up, we not only overcome obstacles but also cultivate a sense of self-respect, pride, and accomplishment that will stay with us forever.  When we persevere through difficult times, we build character and develop inner strength. Each obstacle we overcome makes us stronger and more resilient, preparing us to handle even greater challenges in the future. Giving up may seem like the easier option, but it leads to regret, self-doubt, and a lack of personal growth.

Judge no one. Just improve yourself.

  In a world filled with diverse perspectives and experiences, it's easy to fall into the trap of judging others. We often find ourselves critiquing people's actions, behaviors, and choices, believing we know what's best for them. However, this mindset can lead to negativity, division, and a lack of empathy. Instead of focusing on judging others, we should shift our attention to self-improvement, as it fosters personal growth and promotes a more harmonious society. Judging others can stem from our own insecurities and biases. When we criticize someone, we might be projecting our own flaws or shortcomings onto them. By doing so, we avoid confronting our weaknesses and hinder our ability to learn from our mistakes. On the other hand, self-improvement encourages us to reflect on our actions, acknowledge our errors, and work towards becoming better versions of ourselves. Moreover, judging others can create barriers and damage relationships. When we label people as ""g...

Work hard but make sure you enjoy life too.

  Balancing hard work and enjoying life is crucial for a fulfilling existence. While dedication and perseverance are essential for achieving success, it's equally important to take time to appreciate and savor life's moments. Working hard without allowing yourself to enjoy the fruits of your labor can lead to burnout and dissatisfaction. Conversely, solely focusing on leisure activities can hinder personal growth and progress. Striking a balance between these two aspects enables you to cultivate a sense of purpose and contentment. By working diligently and making space for joy, you can create a life that is both productive and meaningful.