Crowning Glory

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Just wanna share.
Few months ago, ive been struggling about my hair loss due to stress and over thinking. Until such time that i desired to cut my hair as short as possible coz i cant take care of my hair anymore. I attempted to go to parlor and advice the hairstylists to do the style but all of them told me that it wont fit my face size, and will have a "jollibee face" if i did. So i took their judgement and decided to just have a hair trim with treatment. Yet i wasnt satisfied. Few weeks after, i went back to parlor again and asked the parlorist to give me already the pixie cut, as usual the judgement was same, and i effin believed again. Then time went by, i came up to the thought that, "wait, cant i have my own decision for myself? Why cant i disagree with their judgements? I have to stand firm and believe in myself and pursue what i really want." So bravely, i went to the parlor again and i made sure that this time i will have the style that i desired since then, I dont care about their verdict, i dont care about their comments, I dont care anymore. I just wanna be happy, and whatever happens, no regrets; my hair will still be my crowning glory.

Finally, i got the haircut that i really wanted, and it shows that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. My hair is my crowning glory yet it wont define my personality but losing it will show the real me. 😊

I know that this is just a simple haircut, but there are lessons that i learned during the process. Be brave enough, be silly, be your own magic, be adventuruos, take judgements but be free, be you-tiful.

Therefore, i have that brave soul that im sure only few would ever understand 💙

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